In each episode we explore timely topics, fostering knowledge, skills, and empowerment. Together, we’ll broaden our minds, open our hearts, and strengthen connections to face the challenges of living in a divided world. Tania Israel is a psychologist, professor, and award-winning author of two books about navigating political division. Elizabeth Scharpf is a social entrepreneur, leader in global innovation and impact, and urgent optimist.
Episode 20. Join or…
In this episode, Tania and Elizabeth explore the decline of civic engagement in society, referencing Robert Putnam’s work ‘Bowling Alone’ and the film ‘Join or Die’. They discuss the importance of social capital, the differences between online and in-person connections, and the generational perspectives on community involvement. The conversation highlights the role of civic organizations in fostering community ties, the significance of affinity groups, and the personal experiences of the speakers in engaging with their communities. They emphasize the benefits of civic participation for both individuals and society, advocating for a shift towards more active community involvement.
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Episode 19. Misinformation
In this episode, Tania and Elizabeth delve into the pervasive issue of misinformation, exploring its roots in cognitive bias, the importance of reliable sources, and the narratives that shape public perception. They discuss how misinformation can exacerbate divisions in society and the role of media in framing these narratives. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding and bridging divides through genuine curiosity and connection, ultimately highlighting the common values that can unite us despite differing perspectives.
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Episode 18.Overwhelmed
In this episode, Tania and Elizabeth navigate through overwhelm in the wake of recent political activities targeting USAID, DEI, and LGBTQ people. They share personal experiences of feeling overwhelmed by the rapid changes and the emotional toll it takes. The conversation explores coping mechanisms, the importance of human connection, and the potential for rebuilding and improving systems in the future.
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Episode 17. Commitments to Collective
In this episode, Tania chats with Pema Rocker about the significance of oaths, commitments, and aspirations in the context of democracy and community engagement. They explore the presidential oath, the Constitution, and the importance of individual and collective commitments to strengthen democracy. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding, listening, and personal growth as essential components of active citizenship and getting unstuck from our perspectives.
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Episode 16. Fresh Start: Embracing New Habits for the New Year
Welcome to the new year and a jew journey with Ready to Be Strong. In our first episode in 2025, we introduce you to our new co-host to the show as we embark upon a new Administration on this inauguration day.
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Episode 15. Learn, Dammit!
What Tania find most frustrating when it comes to talking politics, and so much more!
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Episode 14. Post-Election Check-In
Tania and Pema unpack what they’re thinking and feeling about the 2024 election, not as authors and experts, but as dear friends just trying to figure it out.
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Episode 13. Swing State Stories
In this solo episode, Tania shares stories from her time canvassing in Pennsylvania just before the 2024 election.
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Episode 12: Post-Election Uncertainty
Are you struggling with anger after the 2024 election? Tania is joined by her friend, a Buddhist lama, to talk strategies for making sense of our big feelings about politics.
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Episode 11: Grief and the Political Divide
Tania and Pema unpack their feelings around the 2024 election results, and how understanding grief can help us cope and move forward — in our own time.
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Episode 10: Join the Bridging Movement
Did you know there are over 500 organizations who are already working together to strengthen social cohesion and democracy in the US? Tania and Pema dig into some inspiring examples, figure out ways to get involved, and unpack why it can feel so daunting to take baby steps towards a less divided future — and share their insight for how to get around that.
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Episode 9: Participate Meaningfully in Community and Country
Feeling anxious or unsure about the election? There’s a ton you can do to get involved. Tania and Pema break down what it’s really like to knock doors, write postcards, and more.
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Episode 8: Engage Effectively across the Divide
Tania and Pema talk tips, tricks, and some surprising research behind how to have an effective conversation with someone who disagrees with you.
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Episode 7: Open Your Heart
Tania and Pema explore what’s so hard about practicing compassion — seriously. Plus why it’s worth it, and one of Tania’s preferred methods of cultivating it.
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Episode 6: Broaden Your Mind
Pema and Tania talk about the emotional toll of broadening our minds, and why it’s important to do some of this work on our own, instead of in dialogue.
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Episode 5: Foster Emotional Resilience
Are our pre-historic brains hijacking our ability to be wise and strong in the modern world? Tania shares science and tips to help us better understand ourselves when we’re feeling threatened.
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Episode 4: Correct Distorted Perceptions
Everybody has prejudices — they’re part of being human. But that doesn’t make them any less damaging. Tania breaks down our most common political misperceptions.
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Episode 3: Use Social Media Intentionally
Pema explored what makes mindlessly scrolling so much more addictive than just watching TV, and Tania doles out tips and tricks to help you stay connected while gaining more freedom from your phone.
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Episode 2: Consume News Wisely
Tania and Pema talk about the slant in our trusted news sources, how to spot a narrative (and why you should), misinformation, and practical tips to stay informed in distressing times.
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Episode 1: Get the Facts About Polarization
Pema shares some of her personal journey with — and questions about — political polarization, and Tania provides jaw-dropping data showing we’re much less polarized and less political than we think we are. Plus, what this podcast has to do with Buffy The Vampire Slayer.
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